back in february i flew down to chicago
to help choose a bridesmaid dress for bekah's wedding.
we went to a few different shops
in hopes of finding 'the perfect dress'.
after a few definite "no's"
we ended up at eva*s bridal and decided on
this dress -
keep in mind i am chip clipped into this and this was not the 'final look' ;)

BUT ...
you may have noticed
that this is NOT the dress we ended up wearing.
we ended up with something similar -
but SO much better ;)
you see ...
in august bekah picked up our dresses.
we tried them on and they were HORRIBLY wrong.
on top of not looking 'right' -
mine was a good 3 inches from zipping
and yes i about had a heart attack
thinking i had eaten one too many cupcakes ;)
i tried on the dress of another bridesmaids that was 4 sizes larger
and it barely fit me
AND
it looked horrible.
it laid funny.
it bunched in certain places
and seemed mis-sewn in others.
we immediately called the bridal shop
and they were NO help.
the list of names i have for them could go on and on
and probably doesn't belong on a family friendly blog ;)we ended up sending my dress back to the designer in NY
and they still did nothing.
we made the decision as a group of bridesmaids
to consider it a bump in the road that we needed to move past.
a costly bump -
but something we needed to do for bekah.
we quickly ordered our new dresses from ann taylor,
and in the end, we were MUCH happier than we ever had been.
well, except for the extra $200 we were out from the first dress.
we tried our best to fight the bridal shop
and even to go through the credit card company.
such a headache
and still nothing.
i thought this would just be the end of the story-
where i walk away and just let it go.
bekah's wedding was beautiful.
we were beautiful.
and when it was all said and done -
it didn't matter how much extra we had spent.
i had let it go - and reminded myself of what was really important.
BUT...
then this morning i got a message.
eva*s bridal had caught on fire yesterday afternoon
and the place was completely gutted.
NOW ...
i do feel HORRIBLE for any brides who have weddings very soon.
i know how frustrated we were with not having dresses and we still had 2 months
to figure things out.
i feel bad that so many people are affected.
BUT ...
based on how uncooperative the bridal shop was
AND ...
based on how horrible they treated us
i have to admit that when i first heard
there was a little part of me that smiled.
typically, i'd say i don't believe in karma.
but just for today ...
i might just a little ;)