Monday, April 30, 2007

goonies never say die



at church on sunday a clip from goonies was used. that inspired stacey.

SO ... tonight the boys had goonies night. stacey introduced them to one of the greatest movies ever. the boys were SO excited all day long! they couldn't wait! (that worked as a great bribery tool!) after dinner the movie began and they watched intently the entire time. before bed i asked their favorite parts --

DREW: when the older brother stole the little girls bike and rode it.

BEN: when they lifted one eyed willie's eye patch.

and together ... they liked the booby traps.

STACEY &I: we love chunk.

Sunday, April 29, 2007

to sleep or to stand -- that is the ??


our lives just got interesting. or should i say more sleepy.

alex has figured out how to stand in his crib.

and when one can stand ... why would one just lay down and willingly sleep???

Saturday, April 28, 2007

a definite don't

ok ... now typically i think jessica simpson has pretty good taste when it comes to fashion. she keeps it fairly simple and is usually pretty classy.
well ... apparently the leprachauns found her and have infiltrated the "fashion sense" part of her brain. what in the world was she thinking when she put on these pants!?! and did she think they were flattering?!? AND ... what makes it even worse!?!?! supposedly this type of pant is supposed to be coming back into style!!! we've gone from super low rise to boob holder uppers.
how NOT flattering!!
this is one fad i refuse to follow.
"if i could ... change the world " -- low rise and boot cut would remain "in" for a LONG time!

Friday, April 27, 2007

little league ... not so little it seems

i'm a bit annoyed. this is drew's first year in little league. he's done t-ball before, but this is the first "official" year. we got his schedule yesterday at practice. between practices and games he has baseball 3 days a week. every monday and wednesday night and every saturday. yes, that's right ... for the entire months of may and june drew has baseball every saturday. now saturday alone wouldn't be so bad. or monday and wednesdays alone wouldn't be so bad. but all 3 every week just seems SO excessive to me. i feel like this is a bunch of 5 and 6 year olds. do they REALLY need to be that busy?! it makes me sad to think that if this is how it is at the 5 and 6 year old level ... the 11 and 12 year olds must have SO much pressure on them!! i hate that! i hate that kids can't just play sports for fun. i hate that parents have turned playing sports into a way for them to re-live their childhood and push their kids to be something they weren't. i hate that i can't go to a game without wanting to tell some parent off because they are taking the game WAY too serious! it makes me feel so sorry for their kids!

what i really hate is that all of this pressure makes it tough for a kid to really try things out and find what sport he likes. drew loves soccer. he knows he loves soccer. so of course he's in soccer. but he also really likes baseball. we want him to decide for himself which sport he enjoys. so that's why we figured we'd let him do both this summer. but i'm starting to wonder how that's going to work.

i have a feeling it's going to be a VERY busy summer.

Thursday, April 26, 2007

red flags

when i went to pick drew up at school yesterday we were talking to mrs. kucinski (his teacher) for a bit. he asked her if there were police to watch the building at night to make sure people don't come in. she said that she thought the police just kind of kept an eye on all of the places around. she asked him why. he said that he and his friends were planning something against her and so he was just curious. thankfully she knows drew. thankfully i've established enough of a relationship with her that we were able to laugh about it. thankfully i knew drew is harmless. when i asked him what they were planning he said he thought it would be funny to put some yarn up around her room to make her think the leprachauns visited her.
WHEW!

something to take note of -- look out for leprachauns.
they sure do get around. drew told me that the reason that he sometimes doesn't make the best choices is because the leprachauns have taken over his brain.

Wednesday, April 25, 2007

more thoughts about god

when you have a toy named god it can make certain phrases that come from the backseat rather comical. here are a few things i've heard over the past few days:

"uh oh. i just dropped god."

"MOM ... ben won't let me talk to god."

"ben!! you cannot just have god to yourself!"

"this is my god drew."

"mom can god come to target with us?"

"mom can i share god with my friends at preschool?"

"mom guess what? the baby likes god!"

god has done a great job at keeping all 3 of the boys busy. who knew that 1 happy meal toy could provide such entertainment?!

Tuesday, April 24, 2007

messy fun


tonight we let alex try spaghetti for the first time. he seemed to really enjoy it. i think he had more fun playing with it than eating it. but, that's ok. he had fun and got to try eating something new.

AND ... it allowed us to have an uninterrupted dinner. that's worth the mess right there!

Monday, April 23, 2007

ben and god


ben made these puppets at church. one is Jesus and one is mary. mary is lost but ben found "god" this morning and had a lot of fun with him all day. god came with us to Toys R Us and the post office today. while driving along god started yelling out the window "i can do anything! i can do anything!" THEN ... god met ben's dinosaur happy meal toy. ben decided the dinosaur's name is god too. so now while driving along we listen to conversations that god has with god. at one point he dropped the puppet and said "mom i dropped god. can you help me?!" so i picked him up and handed him to ben. he immediately stuck him out the window. i told him to be careful because it could blow away. he quickly informed me that if god blows away he'll just go right to heaven.
what was i thinking. duh.

Saturday, April 21, 2007

our newest family member

no ... we did not get a dog.

this is marley. marley is my sister's new princess. (she looks like a princess, doesn't she? can't you see her in a tutu)

i'm down in chicago right now visiting. after spending a day with marley i've decided she's got the whole stressfree life thing down. if you open her crate she just rolls over and lays on her back. when you try to take her for a walk she just lays down or stands there as if to say "exercise?! me?! you're crazy." she spends a lot of her time just sitting on her pillow and playing. she is the funniest little thing. the only thing she goes running for is food. and when you do feed her it takes her all of about 30 seconds to inhale the bowl.

i'm enjoying watching marley (alex is too!!!) but ... no worries. i'm still nowhere close to buying my own.

Thursday, April 19, 2007

drew's best day ever


YIPEE!! DREW JUST LOST HIS FIRST TOOTH!!! we've been anxiously waiting .. for the past week or so it's been just hanging there! of course there is the tooth he lost when he was 18 months old because of the fall while we were in boston. but the bottom tooth that he just lost is the first "real" one :) he is SO excited! according to him today is his best day ever!!

Wednesday, April 18, 2007

yum yum

last night we made one of my favorite recipes. i love it because we make it and there is always enough to last a few days. i'm usually not one for leftovers. in fact i never eat leftovers. but for some reason this hits the spot for at least 3 days in a row!! PLUS it is something that everyone in the house LOVES! i got it from my friend micki and thought i would share it since we all love it so much ... (i halve the recipe when i make it)

TORTILLA SOUP

saute:
1 med onion, chopped
3 garlic cloves
2 T olive oil
3 zucchini
1 green pepper

ADD:
3 chix breasts (cut up or shredded)
4 cans chix broth
2 cans stewed tomatoes
2 cans tomato sauce
24 oz frozen corn
1 tsp cumin
1 tsp black pepper
1 tsp chili powder
tobasco to taste

BOIL ... simmer for 10 minutes.

top with shredded monterrey jack cheese and crushed tortilla chips.

Tuesday, April 17, 2007

a few random thoughts

although today was full of many unexpected surprises (ben throwing up on the way to preschool ... ICK!) -- it ended up being a good day overall. the boys had swim lessons tonight and the weather was beautiful. throughout the day my mind kept shifting though. shifting back towards not only virginia tech, but the implications all of these school shootings have on my life directly. it makes me sad that because of the stupid people that exist, my kids have to have lockdown drills as kindergarteners. it makes me sick that drew is in his classroom with 19 other 5 year olds practicing "hiding and being really quiet so the bad guys can't find us". it makes me mad that he even thinks that this scenario could be a reality. i am in no position to home school. we would all go crazy. but just knowing what these kids have to face is just so hard to think about. i want drew to still be this little innocent kid. i want him to be worried about how to get across the monkey bars. i want him to be worried about whether or not it is really possible to flip the swings over the swingset when you're on them. i want him to just play and live life without a care in the world - the way a 6 year old should!! the things he's forced to worry about really suck.

on a lighter note -- drew got his hair cut. we convinced him that we could do a version of the hockey hair he so desperately wants, but still cut some off. his hair is SO thick that it was beginning to look like a mullet. and although he told us he wanted spikes in the front and long in the back -- we convinced him otherwise! (thank God!!!) so then yesterday after we cut it he told me that he loves his new haircut. the reason?? because his head is SO much lighter now - so he runs a TON faster!

Monday, April 16, 2007

running men and down dogs

ever since we joined the Y i have had a lot of fun trying out the different options. stacey and i both started out just running on the treadmill. then i started trying different classes. i've been doing some basic cardio classes and there's a kickboxing class that i like. but the last 2 classes that i've tried have been my favorites. and they are complete opposites. first we have latin hip hop. it is a ton of fun! they combine your basic hip hop with the latin dances -- salsa, tango, and merengue are a few. then at the end there is a freestyle time. the dancing is fun ... the music rocks ... and the energy in the room is incredible! now if i could just get stacey to go to it with me!! HA! (dancing with the stars here we come!!)

then ... tonight i decided to try a class that is a combination of tai chi, yoga, and pilates. this is obviously a polar opposite to hip hop. but i liked it just as much! it's focus was on stretching and relaxing. at the end of the hour we actually spent 6 minutes laying on the floor doing nothing but working on relaxing every single part of our body! now, that does not happen very often in my life. in fact i will venture to say it has never happened! ha ha! i love my boys. and i love the energy that they have (usually). but to have this 6 minutes -- (and the 54 minutes prior) just to tune into myself and really focus was incredible! i didn't know how i would do with something so slow. i figured i would have a million things going through my mind and it would be boring for me. but it wasn't at all. in fact i think it was more of a challenge for me to actually force myself to slow down. it was fun in a completely different way and i think that's why i liked it.

now the one class i have left to try is the line dancing class. i have no idea what to expect. it could be a bunch of old people for all i know. but i figure as long as i learn 1 dance to pull out at the next wedding i go to - it will be worth it to me!

Saturday, April 14, 2007

ole!


stacey and i are always up for a good deal. and ... it usually doesn't take much to convince us to eat chipotle. so when chipotle offers a good deal ... we're there! today and tomorrow chipotle is having a tax day special. for every burrito we buy today (or tomorrow) we get a free one on monday. we decided lunch would be a good time to stop. and while we were there we decided it was about time diego got his first taste of some good mexican food. he LOVED it. he ate beans, rice, tortilla, tomatos ... basically everything. i wasn't sure that he would even try it. but he loved it!

i'm starting to think that "you are what you eat" really means something when you're pregnant. i LOVE mexican. so i ate a lot of it when i was pregnant (well ... as much as "a lot" is in my life when i'm pregnant) alex, a.k.a. diego, looks a little ethnic. and now he loves chipotle. i'm beginning to wonder if when he speaks his first word it is going to be in spanish as well.

Friday, April 13, 2007

unlikely friends

i came across this story and drew and ben got a kick out of it -- so i thought i'd share it :)of course it is old because it is from after the tsunami. but it's still funny :)

NAIROBI (AFP) - A baby hippopotamus that survived the tsunami waves on the Kenyan coast has formed a strong bond with a giant male century-old tortoise, in an animal facility in the port city of Mombassa, officials said.

The hippopotamus, nicknamed Owen and weighing about 300 kilograms (650 pounds), was swept down Sabaki River into the Indian Ocean, then forced back to shore when tsunami waves struck the Kenyan coast on December 26, before wildlife rangers rescued him. "It is incredible. A-less-than-a-year-old hippo has adopted a male tortoise, about a century old, and the tortoise seems to be very happy with being a 'mother'," ecologist Paula Kahumbu, who is in charge of Lafarge Park, told AFP.

"After it was swept and lost its mother, the hippo was traumatized. It had to look for something to be a surrogate mother. Fortunately, it landed on the tortoise and established a strong bond. They swim, eat and sleep together," the ecologist added. "The hippo follows the tortoise exactly the way it follows its mother. If somebody approaches the tortoise, the hippo becomes aggressive, as if protecting its biological mother," Kahumbu added.

"The hippo is a young baby, he was left at a very tender age and by nature, hippos are social animals that like to stay with their mothers for four years," he explained.



Thursday, April 12, 2007

feliz cumpleanos


for ben's birthday we let him choose where he wanted to go. he chose don pablos.
(GREAT CHOICE BEN!) when the time came the server brought out a sombrero for ben to wear along with his free dessert. YUM!!

it made me wish that every day was one of the kids birthdays. (although i'm sure it would be different if it was a daily thing) it is so fun to go out and have the servers treat you extra special. it's so fun to see the light in the boys eyes when they see that the server is coming out with something extra special for them! at don pablos it was even extra special when ben got to wear the sombrero the entire time he ate his dessert.

i wonder if restaurants would participate if we told them we are celebrating somebody's unbirthday.

Wednesday, April 11, 2007

snow snow go away - we want to jump today!

i have decided that for 2007 april fools is a month long event.

this weather being the biggest joke.

two weeks ago we got a new trampoline for the boys. it is so much fun!
the only problem -- ever since we put it up it has either rained or been cold.

and now ... SNOW!!!

the boys didn't let the cold or rain affect them too much. but this snow has got to go!!

we're ready for april fools jokes that come more in the form of 80's and sunny.




Tuesday, April 10, 2007

lessons on wealth from a 6 yr old

(while driving in the car)

drew: mommy ... can i tell you something?
me: sure.
drew: mommy ... did you know that you don't have to have a lot of money to be rich.
me: oh ya?
drew: ya. money isn't what makes you rich mommy. it's people who love you and Jesus that make you really rich.

WOW. funny how a lesson can be so simple that a 6 year old can grasp it. but very easily forgotten for an old person like me ;) i can hear it over and over again through books, sermons, songs, etc. but, when i'm reminded of it by my 6 year old it is more powerful than the other methods all combined.

a new house would be nice. a new car would be fun. that vacation away from this awful spring snow storm would be complete bliss. but ... i really don't need any of it. i have everything i need. and although sometimes i would love all of those "things" -- after a lesson from drew -- i am reminded they are not necessary. i am already very blessed.

i am rich.

Monday, April 9, 2007

easter fun




i hope everyone had a great easter! the boys and i went to wausau while stacey stayed here and worked some ungodly hours for target. as always it was fun to be there but it is great to be back home too.

thankfully the weather was nice today so we could spend it all outside.

now ... if there was just something i could do about that snow we are supposed to get. hmmmm.

Sunday, April 8, 2007

BEN IS 4!!



it's hard to believe that it was 4 years ago that the little boy with the big blue eyes, long eyelashes, and endless amount of energy came into our world!

the past few years with ben have brought us SO much joy! there is rarely a day that goes by that we don't sit back and smile just thinking about him and the crazy things he does.

ben - you are such a sweet little boy. you have got such a big heart for a 4 year old. you are such an encourager. all it takes is one of your 'i love you's to completely turn my day around. i wish i could have as much energy as you do. no matter what you do - whether it is soccer, playing star wars, or decorating yourself with markers - you give everything you have. you make daddy and i so happy!!

happy 4th birthday little buddy. i love you SO much!

Thursday, April 5, 2007

my little assistant


this afternoon ben decided to use a scissors to try to open one of his birthday toys. while doing so the scissors slipped and stabbed him in the lip. now one would think this would hurt and startle a little boy. one would think he came running to me shaken and upset. but ... NOPE ... not ben. i didn't know that it happened. he didn't scream. he didn't cry. in fact, he didn't even come and get me. the first thing that he did was go and find the camera. he wiped off a bit of the blood and then snapped a picture. after thoroughly documenting his injury THEN he decided he would come find me (one guess where i was -- doing laundry). i saw him and wasn't sure what i was looking at. at first i thought it was paint. it was bleeding so heavily that his chin was bright red and this mysterious liquid was dripping ... actually running ... off of his chin. i asked him what happened and he said that the scissors hurt him. but that was it. i got him a washcloth and some ice and sent him to rest his mouth for a bit. thankfully the bleeding stopped and all was well.
it wasn't until later that i realized he had captured the first few moments after hurting himself with the camera. i had just taken some pics of alex and was getting them off of the camera. that's when i found about 10 pictures (and a video) of ben's mouth. i asked him why he decided to take pictures before doing anything else and all he told me was that he wanted to remember how he got hurt today.
at first i thought he was crazy to think of getting the camera before anything else. but now i see him as a very helpful scrapbooking assistant. an assistant who has obviously observed his mom on one too many occasions as she ignores the real issue at hand and grabs a camera instead.

HAPPY 9 MONTH BIRTHDAY ALEX!!


well... it's time for cake again :) what am i going to use as an excuse once we hit the 1 yr mark and we really don't count months anymore! ha ha.

alex and drew went in for their doctors appts today (9 month and 6 years).

alex was in the 50th percentile straight across the board.
he was 20 lbs 8 oz and 28 1/4 inches.

drew was in the 97th% for weight and 90th% for height.
the doctor gave me the talk about making sure he stays active and that he isn't spending too much time in front of the tv. i told him that they spend so much time outside now that it's getting nicer - that "being active" didn't concern me. they do play video games, just not a lot.
so later on in the appt he asked drew what he liked to do when he wasn't at school.
drew said "i like to play video games." "OH ... AND ... i like to jump on my trampoline." both answers which i'm sure the doctor loved.

we'll have to work with drew on "good answers" to give the doctor when he asks a question! ha ha!

Wednesday, April 4, 2007

what not to wear

i've decided that it would be really fun to be on what not to wear.

i would love for someone to hand me a credit card with $5000 on it. i would love for someone to take me into a store (or 10) and tell me exactly what would look the best on me and how to put different pieces together. the one downside -- i know it would be hard for me to spend the kind of money they do on simple pieces. shirts for $250?? YIKES! i'm sure i could get over it though. as long as i walked out with a few cute outfits i don't have a ton to lose. right?!

so ... feel free to tell TLC i am your worst dressed friend! ha ha ha! i'll wear that badge if it means i get $5000 to spend on new clothes :)

Tuesday, April 3, 2007

the adventures of alex and aiden



for those of you that might not know - my sister and i both had a busy summer. we were pregnant together and now our babies are just a few weeks apart.
in the beginning it was fun to just sit and watch them. they may be related but they look SO different!! and they acted completely different too. (hannah got spoiled. aiden is the best baby ever!!!)
now when we get them together, we spend our time trying to separate them. they spend the majority of their time trying to eat or attack the other.
it is so fun to watch!!
it makes me excited to watch them as they continue to grow. i'm excited for when they can follow each other around. i'm excited to see them run after one another. and i will admit i am even excited to see what kind of mischief they can create when left alone together.
although i know deep down you were hoping for a little eva -- hannah, i'm glad you had a little boy. and so is alex :)

Monday, April 2, 2007

a new pasttime

alex has a new favorite pasttime. alex likes to stand. he likes to stand next to the dishwasher. he likes to stand next to his activity table. he likes to stand next to the couch. anywhere there is a place he can stand ... he does. and it keeps him happy.

and if he is happy ... so am i.


oh ... and ... GO TWINS!!

Sunday, April 1, 2007

a visit to the fire station





saturday we celebrated drew and ben's birthdays with some of their friends. we went to the new blaine fire station. it is SO nice. we got a tour and the kids learned some fire safety tips! it was a pretty cool place to have a birthday party. first of all, because it's free. second because it was actually interesting for us as parents to see the new firestation. finally ... because what little boy doesn't think firefighters have the coolest job ever!! drew and ben had a blast and got lots of fun stuff that they can't wait to play with! now they're just hoping the rain stops soon!

i don't really care about the rain. i'm still trying to get over the fact that i didn't even get a piece of cake. ha ha.

(speaking of cake .. isn't it cute ... i took a drawing drew made to target and the lady put it on the cake)